What a nerve, isn't it? Since the day my son was born I have felt that whoever judges a parent is either very mean, very angry at -someone or something- or very stupid (pardon my French). When you judge a parent -a loving and responsible one that is- you are showing the world, for sure, either a lack of kindness and compassion, an unnecessary dose of arrogance or a very weak character (and all of the above too). I'm sorry, but it is another level of stupidity and insensibility. A parent -again, a responsible one- is by definition someone who works their butt off to raise a child the best way they can. The energy, the love, the devotion, the time and the passion a parent puts on a daily basis, 24/7 into their kids upbringing is out of this world, it can't be explained, it can't be measured, it can't be imagined. Let's not even mention all those concerns, doubts and guilt parents face about so many issues that affect their kids lives. Unless you have a kid, you